Digging to America

Digging to America is a 2006 novel by American author Anne Tyler. A story about the construction of American identity, it follows two families that come from very different backgrounds and converge in Baltimore, Maryland. Both families happen to adopt children from Korea and meet at the airport on their first day back in the country. The first couple, Ziba and Sami Yazdan, are immigrants from Iran; the second, Bitsy and Brad Dickinson-Donaldson, are white descendants of European colonists. The families’ adoptions become their initial point of contact, but they connect through the years as they communicate their different backgrounds, beliefs, and ways of raising their children.

The novel begins when the Yazdans meet the Dickinson-Donaldsons at the Baltimore airport. Though they immediately recognize that they are very different from each other, they propose to meet at least once a year to celebrate the arrival of their daughters in America. The first time they reconnect, Ziba and Sami are surprised to see that Bitsy and Brad have decided not to fully socialize their daughter, Jin-Ho, in American tradition and culture. Keeping her Korean birth name, they actively immerse the whole family in Korean culture, as she gets older. Ziba and Sami’s method of raising their daughter is totally different. They give her an American name, Susan, and strive to socialize her as purely American, hoping that she will never feel alienated as they have as immigrants.

Each year, Bitsy takes an active role in putting on their Arrival Party. Over the years, the event morphs from a more traditional American gathering into a mixture of Korean, American, and Iranian traditions. The event becomes a central fixture in the lives of the Yazdans and the Dickinson-Donaldsons: they even begin to bring their extended families, incorporating cuisines from their different ethnic backgrounds. As the families’ relationships evolve, the story touches on the early childhood development of Susan and Jin-Ho, and the different ways their parents’ nurturing styles inform their personalities. The two families experience some friction due to these differing styles, but they never let it interfere with their friendship.



When Jin-Ho and Susan are no longer kids, a relationship emerges between Bitsy’s father, Dave, and Sami’s mother, Maryam, after they meet at an Arrival Party. They are both widowed: Dave is very depressed after his wife’s death from cancer, but Maryam has dealt with the grief of her loss for several years. Dave seeks a companion in Maryam to help make things better for him. Maryam, on the other hand, is hesitant to open her life up to a new man. However, she eventually warms up to his proposition and agrees to marry him. Almost immediately, she begins to worry that she made the decision impulsively, and reverses her decision, hoping to preserve her more insular life. Maryam’s indecision upsets Dave, striking a vulnerable spot in the two families’ relationships. Eventually, the Dickinson-Donaldsons come to sympathize with Maryam’s indecision: a first generation immigrant, she struggles to form quick attachments to America’s culture, social norms, and people. The tension heals, and the Yazdans and the Dickinson-Donaldsons’ almost familial friendship comes back stronger than ever. By the end of the novel, Jin-Ho and Susan have become lifelong friends as well.

Digging to America investigates the question of whether there is any “right way” to assume an American identity. Ultimately, it suggests that everyone struggles to identify with an abstraction like nationhood, especially when that nation is as unfinished and dynamic as America. The novel proposes that families can learn to embrace and connect through this uncertainty.